The Truth is ....

"Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."
-Bob Marley

Ever felt everyone you once depended on heavily has left you out to dry. I thought I could trust a selected few 5 or 6 and that came crashing down for me in the past month and a half. I never recognized this hurt in a long time but I swear every emotion I used to feel when I was younger definitely came back. I took this time to search within myself to figure out how I can change me to never go through this again. I know people are meant to hurt you but dag I never thought I would get back stabbed by a group of females who I trusted with my life.

I took a good look in my mirror and realized the only people I have to depend on is me and my family. There will always be people in your corner, worth fighting for. I am a person who constantly fighting for people who wouldn't do the same for me. The truth is who ever is worth suffering for will not give you a reason to suffer for. I know what it is like to feel isolated, not loved, feel as though the world what you once knew is now crashing. It is not a great feeling and even though you try to block out what people say, it is still lingers in the back of your head. Sometimes from these thoughts, it can cause you to become slightly depressed. This is the truth of today, people are not all strong and able to block out the negative things people say. Blocking out what people say might be the best advice to give to people but if you are not able to actually do that, then what. Exactly, you begin to feel the way everyone tells you not to feel. But I find it hard not feel hurt or some sort of sad emotion.

My interpretation of this quote is, regardless to what you think, you cannot prevent being hurt. Being hurt is the inevitable and sometimes it is what hurts you that allows you to see the light. Regardless to the rumors, the fights or the comments remember you are your own best thing and do whatever makes you happy. Do not live for others that is where you get caught up being hurt. Live for the moments that will make you smile . If you could prevent from being hurt, then the whole world could do the same. Just realize who ever is meant to hurt you, it was meant to happen. Situations do not happen by chance .

Recognizing that situations occur to open your eyes because if you did not experience some change than how are able to grow. How are you able to see your faults and make better decisions in the future, nothing is going to happen overnight but everyday work towards better choices.